I mean if a product moisturizes…it moisturizes. Of course there is no one size fits all when it comes to hair care or hair products, but should the fact that a product is supposedly “made” for natural hair or relaxed hair even matter? Haven’t we debunked the myth that “white” products cannot be used on our hair?
How many of you have used (and maybe even still use) Tresemme, Suave, Aussie, or Herbal Essences? How many Black women do you see in those commercials? It obviously isn’t “meant” for us according to its marketing, but it still works to condition, moisturize, and cleanse our hair right?!
Natural hair is hot right now, and rightfully so! And naturally marketers realize that so they are going to advertise their products appropriately to make the most sales, but a quick glance at the ingredients will show you that it’s a hair product. Plain and simple. A lot of the curly butters* and gels, are simply holding products meant to keep your natural curls defined – but relaxed women can use it for twist and braidouts for the exact same purpose of keeping the curls defined.
And it isn’t just naturals that do this! I’ve had relaxed women refuse to go to a natural hair show with me thinking its not meant for “them.” Not I. First of all, I always appreciate beautiful healthy hair, no matter its state. Secondly, a hair show is the absolute best place to purchase new and/or discounted products! The “natural” products work well for my hair so…yes, I will absolutely take my relaxed strands into a natural hair expo, proudly at that, and yes, I will tell you (when asked) that I am relaxed and happy and turn around and purchase a t-shirt with an afro-haired lady. Yes, I have received looks of disdain for doing so and no – I absolutely do not care.
A good product is a good product. Don’t limit yourself from trying something to see if it works well for your hair simply because of its marketing. Don’t disregard someone’s product recommendation simply because they aren’t natural like you, relaxed like you, or texlaxed like you.
No, everything doesn’t work for everyone, but something will work for you so don’t allow the whole natural versus relaxed mindset to affect what products you try.