Benny Harlem documents the hair journey of himself and his daughter through Instagram...Hair goals anyone?- His caption "Fathers be good to your daughters"
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- How cute is this?
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- “Health is my lifestyle. I believe that being healthy mind, body and spirit allows my hair to reach beyond its peak. I maintain a very clean diet and I drink a ton of water both very important factors in the longevity of healthy hair… A daily routine is necessary to maintain anything great. I use plenty of natural products witch over time have nourished my hair the best. Since I am in the habit of dressing and cleaning my hair, my daily routine is very simple of hydrating and styling.”
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A bit too intimate for a father and daughter pic
Yes it is….
I agree..
Agree
A child kissing her father?
Yes this is a pose for a couple not father and child.
You are insane. Shows how your upbringing was. Black people have to stop these single moms raising kids. Some clueless people in our black community no longer have a good role model about how a father should treat a daughter. I would hug my dad like this, no problem. I had a great dad. And to think so many people agree with you, the black community is doomed and needs and overhaul. Stop the single moms.
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I was JUST thinking it but so glad you guys said it.
Agreed… Looks too romantic to me!
Pic looks edited to me
You’re f**king stupid and biased because I bet your bottom dollar if it was a mom or grandma with a son it would be AWW HOW CUTE. PUHLEASE
Maya Woodall yes thank you. This s**t was pissing me off.
I’m sure a mom and granny wouldn’t gather together on their knees caressing their kids head while they move in for a passionate kiss, but excuse my stupidity you blank faced empty head looking ****.
Dang why she gotta be all that it’s really not that deep
Shongi Hlekwazi Hlungwani I agree
I disagree, with you a lot of black women especially from the inner city do not know the way a good father acts. Its unfortunate due to the large number of single moms in our community. My dad was kind and loving like this man and was the best dad in the world. I am sorry if you were not treated lovingly and kindly. My dad would hug me everyday. Sad that this world is so evil and bad thinking. I am black by the way. Yes I grew with two loving and kind parents.,
I love this pic but I actually thought that was his girlfriend
Daughter?
Denietra Rev’e look at his hair!!!!
Omg im in love wish it was mines
Too much.. Especially with their eyes closed.. Atleast the cheek
Beautiful
Damn, a dad can’t even kiss his daughter anymore? Lol. People act like he got his tongue in her mouth smh. That’s her father. Always finding something wrong.
No. Not like that.
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That’s because ppl have gutter minds that man ain’t thinking like that about his child and neither is the child thinking that way…this world is full of so much hate that it tries to shame love
I’ve never kissed my sons on the mouth. Js
I kiss my son on the lips. Smh
My daughter is 5 I kiss her and her dad kiss her all the time. I’m pregnant now and when my son gets here he will get the same love. There is a point in time when I think you stop doing the mouth kisses but other races do this all the time until old age and no one cares. But if it’s a blk parent it’s automatically deemed as bad or weird in our community. I don’t get it.
There is nothing wrong with kissing your child on the lips. For real
I swear ppl sexualize things way too much
People sexualize things because sexual abuse of children is very prevalent. We know it exists. Not saying this is an erotic pic or that dad is a perp, but there are pedophiles out there probably enjoying this pic.
Next it’s going to be the daddy can’t change his daughter’s diapers. Its too much
Not even the same thing, actually, unless they photograph it. Sorry, I’m in the field of child abuse & neglect, all I’m saying is it happens. Doesn’t mean I have a dirty mind.
There is nothing wrong with kissing on the lips it’s just THE WAY THEY ARE DOING IT don’t look right.
If it didnt say that was her father i would have thought that was his wife at first glance that all..just looks really passionate
I thought they were a couple…too intimate.
Not only that, but their lips aren’t even touching lol
No comment.
That definitely looks like his daughter. Y’all are some manish ass people. Kill it
Smh :/ This pic don’t look like a father and daughter at all..
Wow dat much hair?
Beautiful picture.
speechless!!
People are crazy now days…when a father shows love it’s deemed as too intimate? She’s like 4, when you still kiss your parents on the lips and no one should take a second thought. Ask yourself this, if it was a mom & her child would you even question it?…smh
You can add another ten years once she gets off her knees.
I’ve seen the full uncropped photo before on another black hair page and a few others of them walking on the beach she is that size. Not on her knees, she’s standing. She’s a child, 4 maybe 5 yrs old.
Is not that a father cant kiss a daughter is the pic it self looks a lil too much..
What about it is too much? I have a 5 yr old that kisses me and her dad good night every night. I see nothing wrong with this photo, lol and the fact that their lips aren’t even touching is even more funny to me…
I think is more the expression of the father…i dont know..why a person cant have their own opinion lol
You’re more then entitled to your opinion we all have freedom of speech. We can agree to disagree… I respect your opinion even if I don’t understand it…
Yes i my self wouldn’t posse like that with my son ..
Wish I could post pics in here me and my daughter have tons of kiss pics, I love her to pieces and I always show her twice the love I received as a child. I don’t want her to ever question that we love her cause I tell her everyday. Till this day I still don’t hug my parents or siblings because we were never really taught that especially after a certain age. It was like the least affection the better in my house growing up. I refuse for my child to experience that. She will be sick of me loving on her before its all through lol
Click the link ladies, its easier to form an opinion when you look at all of their pictures together!
Probably if they had their eyes closed one was holding the back of the others head and the other caressing the others face while they did it.
I don’t see anything wrong with fathers showing their children love. It’s a beautiful sight. At first glance I did not see a child with her father but a man with a woman in this picture.
Just the fact that it needs to be explained. …
BlackHairInformation.com Shantaelle.. Everyones perception is different . To me this specific shot exemplifies passion which is a term not associated with a parent and their child. Not to mention it is unclear if it is a short woman or a little girl(appears to have nail polish). There is absolutely nothing wrong with the warranted reactions of this photo, which resembles the cover page of a romance novel. Where and how you kiss your child is one topic but the reaction and opinions formulated by this specific photo has nothing to do with being crazy. Its just perecption until the story is told.
Tricia Grimes Grant exactly
People are entitled to their opinion that will never change. And I will always respect their opinion. But it doesn’t mean I have to change my personal opinion on that matter that all I see is a loving father and an adoring child. No one has answered the second part of my original statement, that if it was a mother and her child boy or girl would you even think twice about it?
They’re not kissing.
U do realize that she is on her knees as well… Right…. What freaks can imagine the scene leading to the kiss, the way they are positioned, their hands and the way his lips are forming towards the kiss vs hers and say this is okay???
O well. Everyone has the right to their opinion,
Until you walk in on your husband kissing YOUR daughter that way…
Im a mom off, none of which I’ve kissed on the lips sans being a newborn
I’m a mom as well and I always kiss my kids on the lips.
He can kiss his daughter I’m all for daddy daughter love , its the fact that they look like a couple that has fought all odds to be together and has finally found each other to share a passionate embrace and kiss…… That’s the problem.
EXACTLY, it don’t look like a father daughter kiss but a romantic couple’s moment weeeeeeird. I wanted to like these pics so much because of other reasons but this is too awkward. AND WHERE IS THE MOTHER? NO FAMILY PICS?
trop mimi
A father does not put his hand on the back of his daughters head before they kiss. When I was younger my father never kissed us on the lips either.
Weird.
Are you saying the picture is weird or my comment was weird?
Marie C. Rueda I told you his hair was real lol
Lol. I showed you his picture like a year ago and you said you didn’t think it was really his hair
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Damn you guys are twisted. smh
Beautiful father and daughter but the photographer should’ve had them do a more father daughter pose. My opinion it looks more like the scene of a romance movie when two people are about to kiss for the first time.
My sentiments exactly! Too intimate a pose for father/daughter.
So cute
A bit too much for me- what does this type of scene have to do with showing off hair- if that is the main reason for the picture?? What was the photographer really trying to show here?? Raises too many questions!!
I love you to cuz Catrice Davis
Dam, that’s his daughter?!! That is way to passionate
Yeah they should have had him giving a forehead kiss..
At a certain age (which this little girl IS) CHILDREN do NOT kiss their parents in the mouth….. at least not when I was coming up.
Oh my♡♡♡
I its not sexual its innocent ppl find so much wrong in a good thing not everyone. Thinks like that thats how ppl life gets screwed up.behind lies ..
Its the child kissing. Her dad !!!..
I don’t think there is anything wrong with kissing her child HOWEVER I wldn’t have chosen this pose for a daddy daughter.
This pic is photo shopped! Look at the hand of the female, it’s too big for the arm. Come on now!!
So many disrespectful comments. So damn angry. Good grief
Beautiful hair both of them
Something isn’t right
Well dam..all that beautiful hair
This pic seems like a lil too much intimacy for a daughter and father.
Crazy photoshop
Glorious ….
Hair goals Robyn Tenesha
Hair life!!!!!! I’m living
Father and daughter, wth
It’s a beautiful father daughter pic and I’m sure it’s very innocent. .. but I wonder do the photographers think about how these pictures look.. some poses no matter how innocent can look very perverted.. it’s the vision of the photographer that really should be in question. .
That’s exactly my thoughts.Models don’t get to choose their poses. The more I look at it the more I feel that the child is being used in a inappropriately sexualized way.
Hell i thought it was a lil woman midget when i first looked at this pic. Then my second look a lil girl.Too much dont look right looks perverted
Lol
No comment. Love their natural afro hair
Wow.. look Brittany Andrews Wally Andrews
This is a bit too much
People on here calling others twisted but honestly when I first looked at this pic I fell in love with it for 2 reasons 1.the hair 2.I saw a man and his woman!! Went back up read the caption and instantly became uncomfortable!! Of course it’s innocent but a different pose should have been used seeing how the daughter is not a toddler but of age!! My opinion!!
I agree!
Really look at the daughters hand…
Looks shopped…..
I don’t like that
I think its ok to kiss your daughter but this look to intimate
Beautiful pic!!
That’s a lot of hair
That’s a lot of hair beautiful.
He!! You say that’s a grown woman kissing a grown man…Show don’t look like a child an father kiss…Look like they bout to have relations
Awesome
Rex you & Jada lol
I LIKE THAT LOL
Wow just blessed
Lani Brooks wow
Damn that hair tho.
Dude do you see something wrong with this photo? People are idiots. Why is it’s okay for a mother to pose like this with her son but whenever a father is in the picture doing the same damn thing it’s perverted. People are so sick! I bet he treats his daughter like a queen
It’s a gorgeous picture but I have to say that before I read the caption, I thought that was a couple. I think we have to remember that it’s a still shot and while it comes across a certain way, it is more likely a totally innocent and precious moment between a father and his daughter. And I am totally jealous of the hair. Lol
LOOK AT THE HAIR Shaneka Walden Angela Nichol
Love!
What a bond they have!
This is doing a lil bit to much he needs a good Barber shop!
why does that not look very father/daughter.
Fatherly love…
So beautiful
Dorothy Campos Yisrael look at that hair. Just Beautiful.
Awwwww
I would’ve swore that was photoshopped. They killin it!!!
Lol!
Make me wanna grow mine out if my head wasn’t so big
Oh lordt! ..
Get my juices & berries on????
What kind of abominable image is this? They are gesturing like husband and wife
As a photographer… This picture creeps me out.
Something is off with this pic… It’s perfectly fine to kiss your children but the way how they’re grabbing each others head is a bit odd to me… Idk maybe it’s just me
Wauwww ????
That is freaky! Lil girl has woman hand’s
Never have liked all that hair on a man. The picture got all these reactions because it is a provocative pose. First he’s shirtless and they say a picture is worth a thousand words. ..none of which are saying father/daughter to me.
Antoine Parker reason y u shouldnt cut your hair!!!
She has to be older than four years old look closely she’s on her knees
Jaclyn Johnson Barbara Allen look at this wow
Qiana saw this && thought RO!!!
Trust me I know the struggle frfr!!!
Tremain McNeil trevaughn and his daughter !
That pic…… awkward… My opinion….
Just beautiful love the hair
Sorry i don’t like this pic
They posted another picture which is more becoming to people who think it’s off.When I first saw it I knew people would go there.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. IJS
Beautiful pic but it do come across like a couple….the picture says many things…..
A father daughter relationship should be intimate. Despite popular belief intimacy is not synonymous with sex!
THIS
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WHAT
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LOOKS
LIKE
Their hair is everything!!! My hair crush!!!
Thats real love between a father en his daughter
That is A LOT of hair! Wow
People are sick in the mind.. you just not use to seeing a Black man showing affection to a child..
I love it…!
Asha Pearson *on the lips*
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OMGoddess, here we fckng go….
If i didnt see the headline to this I would have thought this was a man and his woman
Tbh i don’t like the pose thingy… Looking like a couple naaahh. Woow if she was kissing him on his cheek then yh i would’ve understand but naah i would never take a pic like tha with mu father you CRAZY even if i was her age!