Let Us Take One Last Critical Look At This – Are Extensions On Children A Form of Child Abuse?

What are the long term consequences of extensions when introduced at a young age?

Like other parts of children’s bodies, the tiny follicles that control hair growth is still forming and developing into a more robust and healthy “root” which will produce healthy hair throughout the child’s lifetime. And so, great caution must be taken when manipulating the child’s hair.

Hairstyles that are uncomfortable for the child to bear will also be uncomfortable for her scalp to hold on to. This means that when the hairstyle is pulled too tight, it can pull some hair off the scalp which can damage the hair growth potential of the follicles where the hair was prematurely uprooted from.

Also, when extra weight is added to the hair in the form of extensions, it can also force the hair to be pulled from the scalp, resulting in balded edges. Receding hairline is not cute on anyone, adult or kids, and so parents or the hairstylist of the child should be gentle handed when handling children’s hair.

While it’s true that it’s just hair and it will grow back, the follicles and the tiny cells beneath it which you don’t see operate in a different way than the hair does. So once damage has been done to the cells that actually control hair growth, they might not reproduce more hair, which can cause a permanent hair loss for the child.

So, are extensions a form of child abuse?

Depending on the way the child’s hair is styled, including the level of care that is given to the child’s hair pre and post-installation, it may or may not be a form of child abuse.

Any hairstyle (extensions or no extensions) that is heavy, tight, damaging and uncomfortable to the child’s well-being can definitely be seen as a form of child abuse.

However, if light extensions such as Marley braids are used minimally and in such a way that the hairstyle doesn’t bring any pain to the child, then it’s not really child abuse, but a way to temporarily change up the child’s look.

What are your thoughts? Are extensions a form of child abuse?

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Hi, my name is Adeola, I'm a natural hair blogger who is passionate about helping YOU to achieve your hair goals, whether it be to have longer hair, softer hair or a healthy head of hair in general. I know what it’s like to be clueless about natural hair, and this is why I’m here to help you create a practical hair care routine that will give you softer hair that is less painful to comb, easier to manage and that can grow long. To get these practical tips, VISIT my WEBSITE to DOWNLOAD MY FREE E-BOOK "Natural Hair Simplified in 5 Steps".


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Suga An Wata

I don’t think kids should wear fake hair braids or not, its just wrong I don’t care how short there hair is, u can still find style to comb it.

Burris-Ross Kat

There is other reason to braid a child hair than for length …my granddaughter has a nice head of hair but her scalp is extremely tender and she cry when her hair is being done so her mom put extension to avoid doing her hair daily and settle for bi monthly

Suga An Wata

Yeah true, but for me kids should be kids an not wear extentions

Christy Love


Naima Watson

Child abuse? Really? That is reaching. If that is child abuse then my mother should have been charged with attempted murder every time she came close to my head with a hot comb

Peggy Edmonson

They would’ve charged my mom with 3rd degree burns
She got close to the nape of our head

Jackie Williams


Alisha Gail Fantroy

OMG LMBO! For real 🙂

Pamela Smith

Your mother too? I remember sitting between her knees on the floor, wishing I could drop out of sight before that snap, crackle, pop sound of my hair, Sulfur 8 and my sweat mixed together. The good old days??? Huh….no!!

Jasmine Smith

If you would have seen the little girls hair due you would have agreed it was child abuse. Poor baby looked like she couldnt even blink. That how tight it was.

Senora Brown


Naima Watson

I saw the little girl’s hair and it was not child abuse, people doing too much

Laverne Wallace

DAMN yall taking in back. But what about pressing the hair with Dax or Dixie Peach. Your hair was shining. Lol. Those were the days

Shaura Phillip

This is so stupid its not even funny! Really?!? As long as they are kept child appropriate and not causing damage to her hair and scalp then it’s fine!

Phoenix McGee

Are people seriously entertaining that silly ass question? People forget that children are individuals who have their own minds. Do I think kids should be wearing em? No. Not my decision till I have kids though. I can disagree with it all day long but it ain’t my right to walk up to someone and start berating them because I don’t like it.

Ambikka Williams

Ok as a child I had long thin hair and mom always used hair extensions to braid my hair. Child abuse is being burnt with the straighten comb on Sunday mornings. Now that’s abuse. Every mother should have the right to do whatever she wants with her child’s head until that child is able to do it herself!

Janie Dee


Alisha Gail Fantroy


Aracelis Hernandez

Well said

Dollie Page

Lol people are trippin

Hattie Berger

Get a life!!

Felicia Michelle

Not keeping your childs hair combed should be considered a form of child abuse,seeing is how some women stay dolled up and the child/kids don’t!!

Strong Harris

Amen,and braids got the hair,and saves on time for school etc

Felicia Michelle

Yes I agree they save lots of time and if done right and depending on the child’s hair and tolerance they may help the hair grow too!!

Jennifer Adams

Wow this is just going too far. I understand that everyone has their own opinion, but claiming child abuse for braids come on now. We as adults put braids in as a protective style right but to do a protective style on a child is wrong. If I’m gonna protect my hair to keep it healthy I’m gonna do the same for my girls. This is just ridiculous.

Darnella Cherry

No it’s not child abuse. If you have a daughter with hard to manage hair it’s better than them crying every day as you pull and tug on their hair and scalp.

Anna Ogonji Smith

Nope! Beauty pageants would be shut down if this was so. If it’s not hurting the child it’s not abuse!

Kathy Thurman


Karen Morris

Are you serious? ? Really? ?? This is stupid!!!

Rutendo D. Magwenzi

lol I loved my braids as a toddler I didn’t look abused in any of my baby pics

Roslyn Jackson

This is sick. When you work with children and your eyes are open to what abuse really look like – then people would stop asking that dumb question

Sheryl Creary

No its not.. ppl really

Ann Ranee

I don’t think it is abuse but parents should consider that it can be painful and if it isn’t done properly or taken care of it can cause permanent damage to the hair.

TaWanda Jones

Lmao omg I’m unliking this page asap,

Bless Mcintyre


Tiela Lewis

I wouldn’t call it abuse but definitely NOT necessary. Little girls need to know that they are beautiful as they are. Long ‘Hair’ does not make one beautiful; It’s confidence! Keep hair clean, moisterized, neat. ♥

Shanae Quinones

It’s no different than braiding regular hair

Akia Heismystrength Bethea

No. Ridiculous to imply that it is.

Judith Perry

How is keeping your childs hair neatly braided with or without extensions a for of child abuse. If no one combed thier childs hair and they were unkept is that child abuse? Who is coming up with these theories, someone with no children?

Tee Cee Kaay

Someone with no black/brown children.

Maybell Lena Killion

I think it’s someone that has had their scalp beat up as a child with such styles. Not all parents are heavy handed but some are and it does hurt like hell. I speak from experience as an adult not as a child. As a child my hair was always taken care of and no one hurt our heads with braids, other styling.

Alisha Gail Fantroy

That’s what I keep saying lol

Renai MezzesmeToo Newson

Smh this is very crazy. THen we need to shut down beauty pageants because making a 10 year look like a prostitute and she has breast is a form of abuse. This is non sense. Everyone should know at whatever age you are dont mess with a womens hair period, its too personal. I understand if the hairdo isnt age appropriaTE FOR THAT child but leave it alone. How about focusing on why these children cant eat a balanced meal at school first. UGH

Takisha Willis

Yass and all that damn make up!!

Tracy Cato

If its tight, causing your child pain as it does most ppl wjo have it – then yes its abuse – the abuse ia not about the extensions but rather the way its put in

Latoya Colbert

Like everything. It must be done tasteful and catered to the age. People are never happy. If the child’s hair wasn’t done and looked like blue Ivy’s used to or worse. Would that be a form of child abuse or judgment from others as well. Unfortunately, we have been forced to feel the need to fit in and look manageable.n

Chanette Staton

Abuse…that is a very strong word to use!!

Dee Dee Martin

Wow really this is child abuse. I thought child abuse was beating your kids, starving them, neglecting them.

Brenda Wi

Causing a child pain, also with tight and heavy hairstyles is a form of child abuse. That’s the point here

Sydney Shea Jacobs

It’s a dumb point

Dee Dee Martin

Yes dumb point.

Sharon Dantzler

Child abuse NO ridiculous, in some cases YES, I’ve seen a toddler with Too MUCH added hair, weighing her down,make it look believable if you must do it at all.

Vanice Mattews

really …

Fatima Ross

Not abuse but the ones that be so tight pulling all the poor kid hair out… its like why do that? Head all bumpy and sore

Enez Laurendine

Ugh these articles! Child abuse really!!! Just stop!!! More like poor choices! Some people are just ridiculous with it! But weave is not child abuse! Now if your using the kid as a live maniquin then that’s a topic to discuss

Jasmine Smith

Excuse my French but don’t put fake shit in a child’s head it’s sad how i see some girls at my brother elementary school with micros and hair extensions

Sharon Watson


Tracey Robinson

No. Some little ladies want the extension. Are the mother is just trying to beautifie her hair in more manageable way.

Ufuoma Aweto Seriu-Aigbokhan

I normally ignore posts, such as this, but this is STUPID!!!

Nikki Robbi

Anytime anyone did ANYTHING to my hair it hurt lol can’t lock everyone up for trying to help me be presentable

Lashonda Taylor

Oh Boy!!!!

Jamie Elaine Reed-Anderson

No, of course not, but teach them to embrace their beauty without false additions, they have plenty of time to do that when they grow up…..let your child be a child…….

Summer Glo Brown

Who wrote this stupid article….really abuse. if that’s the case my mother should have need locked up years ago!

Cha LaBranche

Really child abuse who comes w crap like this

Jackie Williams

What pea brain said this is child abuse like really this child hair is pretty.

Kimberly Williams

What the hell is wrong with people now a days people need to know the different types of abuse and braiding a childs hair is not

Ashley Elaine Plummer

Abuse isnt always physical yall damn

Nessie Belle

My mother first relaxed my hair when I was 7 years old. For the next Seventeen years after I’ve experienced burns on my scaple, my bangs and edges have fallen out five times, many Dominican hair salon truma stories, getting made fun by school kids because the relaxer was eating up my hair. The toture of having the spending all my money on full head weaves. I’ve sat my mother down and told her she ruined my life with that bullshit. It took me 17 years to finally return back to natural. I love my mother but I would consider what she did to me as child abuse and I would love to see an age limit put on relaxers because little black girls should have to through this.

Tianedra Bea Little

I notice a lot of people are concerned with length some kids hair grows more slowly or has more shrinkage they add extensions. I wouldn’t do if I had kids. I’ll personally style their hair til they’re 18 then they can choose whether to weave it up or perm it out. But kids should stay kids and leave alone the extensions and weaves and perms and such

MiMi Ranaye

White ppl plz stop wit yall nonsense….

Keisha Greene

You know there are people out there killing there children and thats a real issue, but someone out these make there children look pretty isn’t a big issue, not combing there hair at all is a issue.

Kataxinha Tavares

Why is everything that parents do is child abuse now??? extensions, earings… if care is child abuse if we dont care is neglect let so many opinions about everybody’s life is actually frustrating to raise a child in a world like this

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