There are crazy stories of marriages coming to an end because of hair choices, but we never actually know if there are other issues, personality or otherwise that the couple has been dealing with that have also contributed to the breakdown.
There are also other stories of men who ‘came around’, who grew to love the choices their lady decided to make for herself and have become very supportive given time.
The point is there is no hard and fast rule to the variety of opinions men and women share about each other especially when in meaningful relationships.
Whether you check with your man before changing your hair or not is entirely up to you and your man because it is a completely unique situation just like Devon’s opinion.
If you have an unsupportive man, it is important to deal with him as best you can in your own relationship using open communication and honesty.
Be careful of the advice that you might receive because it might be coming from a place that does not fit your current situation. For example, everyone has that best single girlfriend, no kids or immediate family obligation and she might tell you, DO you boo!
We also have that girlfriend we don’t see that often unless we have a play date or at a birthday party for her fourth child and she might tell you, girl listen to your husband!
If you check with your man before changing your hair, do not be ashamed, that’s a good thing. If you don’t and he loves whatever you do, that’s great too. But we cannot deny the fact that we always at some point seek some form of validation.
With that said do not act surprised when your single BFF miss ‘do you boo all day long’ is caught smiling from ear to ear when that guy she has been looking at all night at the club tells her ‘ Hey baby, I like your hair!’ – Just to break the ice.
Originally posted 2013-08-18 15:00:25.