
I have had a long hair care journey and when some of my friends transitioned they were full of questions for me. One of the questions I keep getting is: “How does your hair stay so soft?”
From all the pats I’ve received (granted without permission) I can tell that softness is appreciated. I don’t have to tell you why having soft and moisturized hair is good, but I still will. You know from watching videos, reading articles and getting advice from friends that moisturized hair is soft, supple, and strong.
Hair can be described as a sponge. If you have just unwrapped a sponge from its packaging, it is hard and dry. If your hair feels like that you have dry hair and you need to moisturize it right away. When you have a sponge with a lot of grease, you don’t want to just add soap and continue to wash your dishes. It’s dirty; throw it out. With your hair the concept is similar, you need to wash your hair before you do a moisturizing routine.
Reasons to Moisturize your Hair:
- Soft and moisturized hair is easier to de-tangle
- Leads to less breakage
- Hair is stronger and able to resist breakage
- Healthier looking
- Styles look better
- Resilient in harmful weather conditions
Now how do you get and keep your hair moisturized so it can be soft:
- Moisturize hair in sections
- My hair is really thick so I can work in sections so that I can easily work in the products
- Use water or water-based products to moisturize
- I make sure that I moisturize with mixture of apple cider vinegar* and water
- This method gives my hair shine and helps clarify
- Rake the water through my hair with a wide tooth comb*
- This helps my de-tangling process
- Apply oil to the section of hair
- I rub coconut oil* to the section
- I make sure I heat it up in my hands first by rubbing it in between my palms
- I smooth the coconut oil* into the hair
- You can use any oil; there are so many oils: Argan, olive, coconut*, Neem, Jojoba, avocado
- Use hair butter to seal in the moisture and provide
- I use Creme of Nature’s Curl Hydrating Buttercreme
- I use my hands to smooth in the butter
- I apply more to my ends because of the fragility of the ends
- Apply pomade for some more hold and sealing power
- I use Mango Butter Daily Hair Dress to the section
- Now that it is winter, we need to be very careful about our hair
- The moisture in my hair stays locked and my hair is soft
- During the week, maintain the moisture by spritzing leave-in conditioner*
- Every two days I spritz my hair with Creme of Nature’s strength and shine leave in conditioner*
- Every two days I do a quick touch up with butter, as well
- I do not use sections with daily moisturizing