Picture this: your ex-husband comes to pick up your daughter around 12 pm for a day of bonding. You figure everything will be normal as usual. He comes to drop her off around 8 pm. You meet your daughter at the door, and turn on the big light to see her smiling face when you end up seeing something totally opposite.
Two things are drastically different about her: her facial expression and her long, beautiful hair is HALF the length it was before she left this house. You call your ex-husband to ask why her hair was shorter, and he says his new girlfriend “cut and styled” her hair. Yes folks, your read that right – HIS NEW GIRL CUT HIS DAUGHTER’S HAIR?
What exactly would you do next?
I am actually shocked that this kind of thing happens a lot. There are loads of forums and Facebook discussions with furious parents who have sent their child away with the mother or father and the child comes back with a new, drastic ‘do’.
I remember MTV star from Teen Mom, Jenelle Evans freaking out when her ex’s new girlfriend cutting her son’s hair. Her ex’s only excuse was his girlfriend is a hairstylist. Is that an excuse, though? Let alone, that was her son’s first haircut, which is a moment the mother should have been a part of.
In this case, this true story is all over Facebook with a before and after picture of the daughter’s hair. Mom sent her daughter away with long, curly hair and got her back with half the length. The picture and story went viral within a matter of days.
So with that said what would you do if you were in this predicament? Should there be consent from both mom and dad before a child’s hair is cut or styled in any way? Comment below!
Sapphira Hayward says
Be friendly, get her drunk till she passed out and shave her bald. Lol.
Tee Cee says
I support this
Rhonda Cooper says
Gangstea
Frederika San says
Thats right . I would do that to .
Sarah Alexandra says
Actual genius!
Tamekia Jordan says
Yup…I’m wit it.
Pam Cooper says
I support Sapphira’s message.
Juaneisha Imaboss Shinaul says
Right like it will grow back
Regina Moore says
Knock her ass out with yo ????????
Lena Horn says
Clippers r ready. But I still mite have to woop tht ass.
Glory Reyes says
Ohhhh yesss!!!!
Monisha S. Morgan says
That’s going to take too long. I would immediately commence to literally whooping the hair off her head.
Fareedah Jefferson says
Good one
Simone Sang says
What? She better be prepared for one from me. Bright!
Lenea Thompson says
Rule #1 in Life: NEVER, EVER TOUCH ANYBODY’S CHILD!!! EVER!!!
Selina Jean says
It doesn’t matter if the hair will grow back. this lady was being evil. point, blank, period. Why are you so concern with cutting that child hair? Cut your own hair. This said alot about her as an individual, and clearly cannot be trust with no one children.
Adrienne Bell says
Exactly.
Amalfi Elizabeth Elibo says
How evil.
Karmel Koated Kizzez says
I have no words……………..
Fatima Foust says
Why do some people that have had nothing to do with making and raising some children feel they can decide what happens with the children. I am soooooo upset for this Mother. Her hair will grow back yet that man will miss his “bonding” time till he got rid of “Ms. Hair doer” !!!!!!!!!!
Patrice Cameron says
She was so wrong”
Amber Johnson says
Stfu….First off there is no before and after pictures. I am a step mom my bfs baby mama would let her daughter hair get f**king tangled to the point when you try to brush it, well you wouldnt be able to, it would have food in it and knots all over her head, her hair was beautiful but the mother is a lazy b**ch and doesnt care if her daughter looks like crap even though everytime she leaves the house her hair and makeup are done!!!!!! Unless she did it to be vendictive which I doubt the father would allow that, I see no problem!
Amber Johnson says
PS of the main pictures on the front are her…… her hair would still be pretty damn long!!!!!! Its hair AGAIN unless it was vendictive she needs to chill.
Honey Yams says
Step parents dont have the right by law to alter a childs appearance. Now if the dad consented that may be different but i believe it could all be put in writing in court that way ppl can avoid these issues…
Tee Cee says
so you saying you would cut the child’s hair? What you saying doe?
Lora Atkinson says
First of all you need to stay in your lane that is her child not yours. She is nicer than me because I would’ve shaved all your hair off your head.
Daniella Koroma says
Lets assume it was dirty & tangled….Then she should’ve washed & detangled it NOT cut it. That she’s the supposed step mum DOES NOT give her any right to cut the little girl’s hair. I don’t care if she’s trying to help, doing it to be spiteful or whatever she has no right to cut the girls’ hair WITHOUT the consent of BOTH parents. I dare someone to do that to my child, so help me God by the time I’m done with that person, trust & believe me she’ll have a scissors and a hair cutting kit phobia for life. I don’t play that game.
Amber Johnson says
My personal expierience I told the bbay mama you cut her hair or take care of it or I will call CPS because she is neglecting her kid.
Rissy Finesse says
That ???? is???? not???? your ???? child???????????? do not worry about her hair. Mention it to the parents but you do not touch it.
Leeanna Salandy says
Am still not your child! U didnt birth that child u dont know how that child get big so! Wash it and detangle it. I cant do it ask permission to take the child to a hairdresser to get it cut dont do it yourself!
LaTausha Jones says
Girl!! This happened to me one time too….u let your child come out the house looking like kunta kente bout the head but u make sure ur hair and makeup is done….so yes, i trimmed it and twisted my boyfriend’s(of 15 years) daughters hair up and it was hella cute but of course babymama gets mad…funny thing though…..babymama kept her daughters hair up after that though! Lazy!! My mama was never lazy and always had my hair on point!
Shawn Baker says
As a CPS investigator calling us about hair is a waste not combing your childs hair is lazy not neglect….leave the system for childeren who are actually being abuse and neglected….cutting that childs hair us abuse…
Patrice Perez says
I hate dumb ass “new girlfriends “.No matter how you feel about it your mans child is his child . Your reign does not go beyond him just cause your sleeping with him now. That issue was between the father and mother.These women need to stop trying to get brownie points.Nomatter how your personal feelings are YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS TO TOUCH ANOTHER WOMEN’S CHILD. PERIOD.
Honey Yams says
Lol cps would not give a crap about some tangles.
Lakesha D Deal says
She has no right to the child’s hair, unless she was giving permission or a licensed hairdresser. Even if the hair was hard to comb not her place. Somebody better sure she not bundling it and selling it.
Dya Manti says
Patrice Perez I agree with you those poor children
Stacy Reed says
If the father of the child you’re speaking of let his kid walk around with food and tangles in her hair than YOU need to question who you sleeping with….cause he needs to step up and do the child’s hair. NOT YOU. You don’t need to question a mother…question the man you f**king with who wouldn’t take the time to wash and style his own kid’s hair but just leave it up to the mother to do it.
Shae Shae JW says
Stacy Reed True, all of it. Plus how hard is it to check with the mom? If she says no, let it go. The girlfriend is not a stepparent until she is married and even then she must ask both bio parents. Poor baby.
Tashiba Pat says
Yes Stacy Reed , the father picked the so called lazy nasty baby moms, tells you bout his character! He sure can pick em!! Back to the matter at hand…..keep your hands and opinions bout kids that you did not birth, if a female is that concern and bold, step to the mother with your concerns or for consent! Your so involved and helpful, throw some salon money to the mother! Yea I know the ones reading this would never! Spiteful fake asses! Baby dad is weak!
Amber Johnson says
Hahahahahahahaha sounds like alot of single mothers hating on the dad and his new gf
Amber Johnson says
PS she is my kid. Im her step mom since she was 2. I have her daughter 5 out of 7 days a week. SMH
Amber Johnson says
LaTausha Jones thats all I was saying, the baby mama didnt wanna take care of her hair, I always do. Now this situation sounds like she wanted to spend quailty time and bond with the little girl. Unless the little girl complained or cried to her mom saying “daddys gf is mean cut all my hair off” then she shouldnt be mad! She said she cut and styled which mean she was bonding if the mother isnt happy about that well sorry should have stayed with the dad or have custody to where the gf cant be around the kid.
La Tonya Ranson says
Should just make the report (and wash the hair) instead of taking it upon yourself to cut THEIR child’s hair. Stepmother by behind. As close as I could be with my spouse’s children by another woman, there are still some decisions I am not privy to making.
Amber Johnson says
Its hair, it grows back, people are acting like it the end of the world, she didnt hit the kid, she didnt force the kid to do anything, except bond with his bf/husbands daughter.
People are so mad that she did it, but nobody again with my situation the girl would be in PAIN because of how bad her hair would be.
Nobody knows the full story they know the pissed off mothers side of the story. Like I said it seems most women commenting are mad single moms. Whom probably actually take care of their kids hairs and stuff. My comment was based on my experience, and feeling this mother over reacted im thinking past the mad mother and thinking there may or may not have been a reason.
Jennifer Michel Sims says
You’re not understanding that it’s not your place. She has a mother and father. Your stepchild has a mother and father. If you have a problem, you consult them first and foremost. If you want to call CPS consult your boyfriend first and see what he thinks about that. But you, under no circumstances take it upon yourself to alter a child’s appearance, especially one so young for any reason at all. “Bonding” is no excuse. You don’t need to bond a child that is not your own if you think that it gives you the right to start making decisions as a parent. Period.
Amber Johnson says
Again my personal expierience her mother is in her life 6-8 days a MONTH. The father clearly allowed it as she said in the article. Also my bf aggreed with me on CPS but the mother stopped being selfish and got her hair cut after 4 months of people telling her you get it done or other people will. But people are hating on the GF but the FATHER allowed it!!!!!
Kia Prioleau says
Amber, the new girlfriend cut over 5 FIVE INCHES off her daughter’s hair!!! If my daughter’s father girfriend was a to just TRIM and STYLE it, no problem. But trimming and cutting is two different things. You ASK permission before touching someone’s child head. If the girfriend was respectful that’s exactly what she would have done for proper protocol.
Amber Johnson says
Ooooo no your right Kia I agree she should have asked, hell the dad should have asked. But the point im making is people are so quick to hate the girlfriend, when the articale stated the father allowed her to do it.
Tee Cee says
I wish a b**ch would CUT my child’s hair without my permission. The ass whooping she would be receiving…. however thankfully I’m married and I don’t deal with baby mamas, step moms, or girlfriends. Lol
Sarah Alexandra says
People, Amber Johnson is white. She obviously doesn’t get the whole black people hair issues. We could kill someone that messes with our hair.
Honey Yams says
Amber Im not a single mom but i wouldnt appreciate ANYONE!!! not even my own husband or parents altering my childs appearance w/o asking me. There should be boundaries. My girls have curls like me i flat iron my hair but my husband (their dad) is against flattening the girls hair bc he wants them to love and be confident in their appearance as is and change it themselves if THEY want to so i as their mom never flattened it bc my husband is against it. If we weren’t together i wouldn’t appreciate his gf doing whatever w my kid w/o consulting me. Its just disrespectful.
Amber Johnson says
Um I know she is black lmao my best friend of 10 years is black and I understand that the hair issue is it doesnt grow as fast, texture and styling possibilty differences. But her hair was down to her butt and she looks about 4, SO im pretty sure she is either mixed or she naturally has amazing hair again 5 inches isnt alot when it took her 4 years to grow 2 ft of hair lol
Honey Yams says
Im multiracial carribean hispanic. I cut my hair all the time and trim my kids hair. I really dont thunk its a black or white thing. I know plenty of white ppl who wouldnt appreciate someone cutting their kids hair…
Amber Johnson says
But again the FATHER didnt consult either, he let her do it.
Cake Cake George says
Jail her that is s**t
Tameka L Castleberry says
There’s a good possibility that the girlfriend was jealous of the daughter. That happens too
Adrienne Bell says
She was wrong for cutting that baby hair point blank.she’s not that childs mother!
Darci Flowers says
The person who cut the child’s hair without permission can be arrested and sued. I know someone this happened to. The evil new stepmother had to pay the mother a five figure settlement. She never did that again.
Vedejah Scroggins says
No because the father who has just as much say over the child’s hair let it happen so you can’t sue her and make her pay for it it’s messed up but ya know there’s nothing that can be done
Kim Simms says
I was going to suggest the same thing, after my first thought of whipping that azz ????
Delane Grace Bradley-Fletcher says
Vedejah Scroggins A non-custodial parent cannot make that call, this was wrong and me and that exes new girlfriend would have had a meeting of the mind real quick if you know what i mean, never touch the babies hair, some women do this as to say that they can do a better job in taking care of the child than the mother can, just pure meddling and asking for trouble, also can be jealousy.
Antricia King says
The father is blind, he eat bean soup. Cinderella story in real life.
Tee Cee Kaay says
Now that’s what I was thinking. I would see her in court.????????????
Tanya Maria McDaniel says
Most mothers send their daughters to their fathers with hair done. I sent my daughter for a few weeks so had her hair braided the ex didn’t like braids so on her arrival had her take them out. Some men have No common sense and maybe she needs to see a lawyer to see if there is any law against what was done or maybe even supervise visit for her dumb ex
Tanya Maria McDaniel says
Oh and the girl probably was jealous the little girl had a head full of curls js
Anita Ellis Davis says
God help that heifer if she took my baby’s braids that I paid for, out!!????
Kim Simms says
What she did amounted to simple assault. But most police will tell you it’s a civil matter, don’t let them push you off. I don’t care is she gets 3 months probation! Then I’d sue her azz and beat her azz. Business first
Antricia King says
I call men like that( p***y wiped)
Marie Kelly says
The only recourse would be for me to buzz cut that b**ches entire head.
Macia ll'Moni says
Now whether she was being spiteful, vindictive, or thought she was actually helping she should have never cut that little girls hair without the consent of both mother and father. That’s not your child at all. Yes you are a female figure in that little girl’s life because her father is dating you but you’re not her stepmother. Even then you still need to check with both parents to see of they want their childs hair cut. There are boundaries that you just don’t cross. I would have a fit if even my mother cut my child’s hair without consent. That little girl hair could have been breaking off horriblu but still you need consent from her biological mother and her father that you’re dating if you’re going to cut her hair
Tamirra E Leftwich says
If you do not consult with the primary parent and obtain approval then we have a serious issue. No one parent or their significant other should be allowed to do anything that alters the childs appearance or well being unless agreed upon by both parties!! Totally out of line.
Kiela Griffin says
She was in the wrong. Cutting a child’s hair should be the permission of both parents. Girlfriend has.no right to touch her hair without speaking to the mom also. I would be so freaking upset.
Linda Banks Meridy says
Jesus take the wheel!!
Hindala Jones says
Black women have been trying to grow there hair for years. We buy extentions, wigs, etc: and this child was blessed to have long hair. This was not her child she was not even a step mother. A girl friend ? no way. I hope someone would come to bail me out cause it would of been on………………………….
Alisha Elnora says
Lol if the dad isn’t bald his behind would be bald to so would his girlfriend, you don’t touch someone else’s child.. she must be crazy and him too, because a decent loving dad would have called his ex up and asked since it does not seem he has full custody but visitation and asked how she felt about a hair cut.. I would have been locked up right next to ya!!!
Tynika Nelson says
I got that bail money for ya, this is so wrong on so many levels
Donna C Cara says
Jail without
Shannon Barnes says
We would be fighting. What would make her think she has the authority to do ANYTHING to that woman’s child?!
Alesha Clayton says
ok so you cut 5 inches off that baby hair, the mother needs to cut 5 inches into the girlfriend’s ass , that was mean and spiteful, children are off limits . Then when you get done beating the crap out of the girlfriend, go find you ex-husband.
Angie Herring says
Odorless hair remover in her shampoo and conditioner and a laxative poop cake. And a note 2 days later on where to meet me HEFFA DONT TOUCH MY BABY HAIR
Riley Dawn says
She should get full custody… Unacceptable.
Dee Sanchez says
What….
Tiffany Elston says
I’d go “cut and style” the new girlfriend’s hair.
Katrisha Smith says
Locked up and they wouldn’t let me out!
Keishaun Davis says
Jesus take the wheel… it would real… real quick.
Traci Howell says
Omg!!? I’m a mother of two girls both with long hair I don’t allow anyone but me to touch their hair.. This would have sent me to the moon I would have made the local news of this was my child…
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Lisa Nicole says
That was not her danm place I would put my foot up her ass.!And the Ex for choosing the b**ch..u dnt play with the kids
Jewel Jones says
Child abuse
Shannon LJ says
Pure hater!
Aneka Spicer says
Totally not her place the girlfriend
Renae Nelson says
Unless that childs hair was a MESS filthy and matted, (and the father should at least know that much) they should have at least called before cutting.
Leeanna Salandy says
Even if it was in that of a mess u still have to ask permission not take it upon yourself to cut the child’s hair
Sheila Thompson says
I would be content with the results, my babies hair will grow back, but your front rows won’t (teeth straight yanked).
Sandra Morris says
I would find her n bust her f**k up. I didn’t give her permission to do it?
Lori Lankford Williams says
I would have been pissed off to the max
Barbara Hughes says
I would stomp her down, then shave her head!!!
Not really. But, I wouldn’t send my child on visits without a court ordered mediator.
Cassandra Nanette Johnson says
She still alive?
Natacha Webster says
That’s more than half the length her ass would’ve been grass
I would tire her up shave her head bald and put chemicals on it so he hair won’t grow
Shelbra Grissett-Little says
You all are killing me with all the nice answers. I would scalp that b**ch than I would scalp her father for dating a dumb b**ch!! Don’t judge just roll with it!!…
Jennifer Whitfield says
I would’ve snatched that b***h up and shaved her bald. Then tell her it’s just hair, it’ll grow back!!! I’ll have to clip his a** up too….but in the worst kind of way
Sharon Caurthens says
The child’s father should not have allowed it. I’d file a court order against the child’s father. No drastic changes to be made to the child’s appearance without discussing it with the me, as the mother.
Kim Brown says
Grow YOUR OWN B*TCH!!
Arlesia Foster says
Baby it would’ve been smoke in the city!!!!!
Da'Vida Cannon says
No one has permission but me to cut mines. I promise you all of those talking about or trying to judge if the girlfriends intentions were spiteful know that they are. There are some grown people that take their childish nature out on the kids of whomever they are with.
Shayenka Meriana says
I’m not a fighter but we are going to fight if that was my CHILD!!!
Ariel Smith says
I’d be pissed!
Carla Alicia Bell-Holt says
I’d file a police report!
Kimberly Vinson-Jackson says
Girlfriend must be bald headed nappy headed and jealous
Catherine Dyana says
She was wrong. Hell even Judge Judy would tell her she’s nothing to that child and that’s between the mother and father.
Deanna Jackman says
I swear im just here for the comments. You know women dont play this s**t!!
Anastasia Adams Jones says
Mom must be extremely passive and dad isn’t assertive enough there’s no way in hell this is remotely acceptable! She wouldn’t be trimming anything unless she a full time parent! you’re the girl friend that mean juice and snack only nothing else … Girl bye! It’s time for a serious sit down!
Natalie Nelson says
Slap the s**t outta that b***h and whoop his dumb ass too….That’s over the line too me my son’s father did this to me (got my son’s hair cut off behind my back) and i was livid… .
Valerie Johnson says
This happened to me as a child but at the time I was not in the care of my parents or family (long story). The family did not know what to do with my hair (white women) so they cut it off and gave me a perm…I still remember sitting outside in a chair crying while my hair blew away…my dad was very upset but there was nothing he could do.
Naudia C. S. Pellew says
She’s gonna make a weave. This child has “good” hair. The step mother bright! !
Karen Washington says
I would take both, the ex and his new girlfriend to court! Damage already done! No sense in getting yourself in trouble, cause that’s exactly what the new b**ch want! She probably did it, so the girl mother would lay hands on the father, so they could gain custody! of the lil girl!!!
Ashley Young says
Kick her ass!! Any black person knows it takes forever to see our new hair growth. Her ass would be mine.
Pamela Ikerd Davis says
Murder she wrote, murrder she wrote…
Patrice Perez says
You don’t touch nobody else child’s hair or anything else without both parents permission mainly the mother.
Shawnta Mitchell Hunt says
She would get her ass beat you are not even a step parent who give you the authority. I’d be going off
Calandra Ellis says
I blame the father. He should gave stepped in and told her not to do this. That’s equal to an ass beating!
Sandra Harris-Holloway says
She’d be bald. The end!
TiaRéna Harris says
I’ll be at their house with some clippers cutting her damn hair off ugh hell no… I wish a would Adrian Scruggs Jessica Norris
Adrian Scruggs says
Oh yeah.. That’s messed up.
Eve Cornell says
Yup I’d cutting all her hair and say well it just hair b**ch
Deidra Nicole Kidd says
You don’t put scissors to another woman’s child unless she grants you permission period. Show some RESPECT. If the tables were turned you wouldn’t like it young woman.
Sharon Jones says
Oh noooooooooo
Kieta Caro says
Disrespectful!!!
Audrey Wells says
OK grown folks let’s be clear if I sent my child away with long hair unless I’m the mother who is sole proprietor of the child know her head should have been cut. But its cues me I’m not no bad person if anybody ask I’m not violent I’m not out of control unless you make me make a new ID you jump out and not be one time somebody will get their behalf with the girlfriend and the ex husband that’s something you don’t do and she definitely crossed the line so yeah that’s why everybody and I’m trying my best not to use profanity but everybody should have whooped your ass out of jail money have a work out of jail card money.
Le Petite McCullough says
My baby sitter cut my hair when I was five and put it in a zip lock bag and gave it to my mom and said she clipped my ends.. She did not cut my ends She cut my pomp pomps off while they were still in the knockers.. And then forked it out My mom was going to shoot her!! long story short DO NOT TOUCH mama’s baby hair!!
Culinary Queenie says
And this falls on the asshole father for allowing that s**t to go down. And I’m sure hi next step is marriage since he don’t have common sense
Audrey Wells says
And the woman out here who said she sees no problem with it we’re not talking about the hair being cold hearted you can fix a nappy hair but that has been cut FOOL
Stacy Tucker says
This haven’t to me but she didn’t cut my daughter hair she put a perm n it and mess up my daughter hair type never with back to being curly
Tiffany Marie Banks says
We would have a problem.
Tanya Betton says
what kind of idiot would think it was okay to cut someone a child hair that isn’t your child. There would be hell to pay for both of them and he should be pissed as well. New girlfriend is either a bitch, stupid or both. Actually she was probably jealous. Little girls hair was probably prettier then hers.
Juanita Wallace says
A special kind of idiot..those vindicative things that are jealous of a child. Smh. Just sad to go after a child.
Cynthia Moore says
I would have been furious
A.D. Allen says
Pray family bonds me out before midnight..I don’t wanna sleep overnight in jail
Vanessa Houston says
She wrong, that’s not her child. She may not be there next week(seat filler) so she had NO right cutting that baby’s hair. She was jealous!
Connie Smith says
if it her real hair someone going to pay but that other add on hair she probably shorten it a little
Laura Urbina says
Whatever her intentions, she should have asked the mother first.
Aja Johnson says
Lawd I’d lose it. Help me Holy Ghost!!!!!
Victoria Wilson says
The father going forward would have supervised visits ONLY!
Shereene Hogan says
Omg Israel Guy come visit me in jail?
Porscha Bene says
Beat the f**k out of him and her y u let this b**ch cut my kid hair?
Alex Thorn says
This has me laughing…. But I see the wrong in it
Jennifer Batiste says
I would’ve had to find a way to be calm and weapon free when I ask her why and I hope her answer will help me to remain calm and weapon free.
And I would also hope she had the smarts to donate it…which is probably the best reason she could come up with…to help me remain calm and weapon free.
Burris-Ross Kat says
Beat her ass to a pulp……but really I would go to court
Alexis Gardenhire says
Bastards would be a f**kin memory! Both of them
NieCee Ekundayo Scott says
I wouldn’t have to do anything because everybody and their Momma KNOWS that the Boundaries Starts and Stops with my kid.
Her @$$ would be in the Special Hell I’d build for her. She’d NEVER have Peace in her Life for as long as I Live.
Allison Battles says
I’m loving how every single one of you females are missing the fact that it takes a village to raise children. Truth, it takes two to make the child, but where one of the two will lack the village will provide. How are you all so completely up in arm’s about the child being taken care of? If the motive wasn’t to upset nor use the child as a ploy for petty thing’s then the act is genuine. Smgdh…. This completely dysfunctional way of thinking is literally the reason why I stay away from men with children all together no matter how great of a man he may be. I know deep down in my heart there’ll be an angry, bitter brawd behind him that I truly have no time for. Smgdh… #PointCompletelyMissed
Tee Cee says
That’s a smart idea cause if u cut my child…..lol yeah just stay away from men with children
Mariama Diaw Khouma says
It takes a village to raise a kid but as long as you didn’t push that kid out, you do not have the authority to take drastic decisions like that on your own without the parents’ consent. If you can’t understand that… like you said stay away from men with kids.
Stephanie Miller says
The problem is that she did not ask the mother if it would be okay…. The dysfunctional thinking was the girlfriend overstepping her position in the child’s life and undermining the mother. She had no right.
Allison Battles says
Again, I know there will always be a bitter brawd behind a good man with a child. And you ladies literally just proved my point. Smgdh… That’s sad as hell
Jacqy says
Interesting
Tonya says
Allison please explain to me why I, ( the primary caregiver) of my children would be considered “Bitter” for being PISSED that some broad I don’t even know (new girlfriend) cut the hair off the head of a child that “I” painstakingly took the time to nurture? Hmm… plz, plz explain why ANY MOTHER should just say oh well it takes a village to raise em? ( side note where’s that damn village when the bills are due)?
Shannie Blake says
OMG !!! …I would beat TWENTY INCHES off her ass QUICK !!!! That is a Crime and her ass jealous of that little girl beautiful hair .Put her ass in jail immediately!!!
Rens Follies says
Let that had be my daughter her or that father would never see that little girl again
I wouldn’t appreciate the fact that someone is putting their hands on my child against my will.
Jan Fenty says
Whatttt hell no
Moness 'Momo Stoles says
Cut hers off. She is mad
NevaNot Eva says
We boxing… Thas it … Anything you do with my child’s body and mind needs to got through me and their dad…and we mutually agree..
Danielle Renee says
Heads would roll
Do not
I repeat
DO NOT TOUCH MY DAUGHTER’S HAIR! I only have one baby girl she has alopecia, her hair is extremely sensitive so do not push me! Her hair is usually in its natural state (looks nappy) bc too much combing causes breakage
And this is my point! If you don’t know wth is goin on stay in your mf place!
Arbida Young says
She needs to be Sued or Whooped!
5 inches is not a Trim!
She probably was jealous of the little girl!
KaTisha Leak says
I would cut her hair and then some
Nicole Deseree says
Oh hell naw!!!!
Shae Shae JW says
I’d have to cut the girlfriend ……………….. ‘s hair.
Senita Perry says
Oh Hell No!!!
Charlene Airey Charscandy says
Noooooooo way. I’d catch a case for s**t like that.
Fannelle Collette says
The father is the person that is responsible for the haircut – not the 2 girlfriend. He allowed it. And yes he should have checked with his ex-wife.
Kalief Browder says
She would’ve got her s**t rocked!!! Idc what the circumstances were!!
Chyna Jade Gomez says
Then we can give her a new haircut too ????????????????????????????????????
Leonie-Anne Diamond Slimmers says
i would be in jail
Jasmine Bell says
Amy just be on standby with bail lol
Onyedikachi Benita Weir says
Be very kind and happy with her pretend that she did a great job, make sure I get her drunk by all means or possible give her a sleeping pills cut her b**ch hair to skin cut, then she will understand how it feels. And for the dad he never gonna be out with her anymore until he assure her safety
Mis Kelly says
… I would need to pray!.. My heart is beating!!
Laura Sharisse Rumbles says
Ass whooping time.
Astrid Bunny Moore says
Alexis Wainwright I wish a b**ch would
Alexis Wainwright says
Girl I will be in jail.
Maureen Tomlinson says
Hold my earrings
Ov Norful Hawkins says
She had no right to do this you’re just a girl friend….but what morgue is she in
Lesha Romeo says
Old girl would be… snatched bald for a season or two
Sarah Lisa says
I would see his dumb ass in court and visitation would be cut or supervised. If he’s weak enough to let her cut that baby’s hair what else will his weak ass allow. Beatings? Other abuse? I would no longer be able to trust him with my child.
Erica Blair says
Beat that b**ch ads
Indy St Prix says
Oh hell no!!
Tenisha Adams says
That’s when you grab a pair of scissors an cut her hair
Mary Cody says
That’s a big no no wow
CJ Alyha says
Stephanie Voit-Moncivaiz what would you do?
Stephanie Voit-Moncivaiz says
Pull up and beat her ass ????????????????
Tracy Mendoza says
The level of petty in these comments makes my heart rejoice just a little.
Twanna Byrd says
I would be in jail cause I would be beating someone’s ass
Whitney Boyce says
Both bio parents should agree first. Who even thinks to do something like that to someone else child? I would hope and pray if I were ever a gf or stepmom to someone else child, especially a girl, that they send the hair already done so I ain’t got to fool with it.
IhopeYou Dance says
I would calmly go to Their cozy nest and give her a Bro Ralph special haircut. She should appreciate that
Karen Earle says
F’k that b**ch UP! She had NO RIGHT to do THIS! As a matter of fact I would sue that b**ch for my child’s emotional distress and have her jailed for child abuse! Fkn b**ch! Oooooooooo I am soooooo mad off this story! SMDH
Henrietta Ellis says
Beat that ass!!!
Michelle Tucker says
Fight!!!
Denise Mills says
I’D BEAT THE BREAKS OFF HER!! PULL ALL HER HAIR OUT FROM THE ROOTS!!
Tiffany S Davis says
Mommy would’ve went off if somebody did this to me when I was a little girl with all that hair i had Tina Dupont
Kiki Lovemeforme Myers says
I would be angry and beat his girlfriend ass
Sandy Workman Young says
Mom needs to cut her ass for that. Why didn’t she ask the mom if she could cut it? Hell nooooo.
Rickie Jean Thomas-Penn says
Open five cans of whoop-ass on baby daddy’s girlfriend cut 5 inches off her if she have some and have a long talk with baby daddy about babygirl.
( the do’s and don’ts)
Rico Queen says
I would of f**ked her up
Jaylow BooGirl Johnson says
It was not her child to begin with. After I sued and got my money I would have beaten her and the ex behind.
Cathy Lyons says
I would be Pissed. She had no right to do that.
Lu Sun Jor says
She was probably jealous that the kid has gorgeous hair
Paula Henderson says
That almost happened to me lol. Husband though it would be good idea to make appt with stranger in Wal-Mart to mess with my babies head. Good thing my kid has more sense than husband !!!
Tajuana McCants says
She says it’s just 5 inches and it’ll grow back well it was enough cut to where the mother noticed it first of all what gave her the idea that it was OK to just cut someone’s hair I kind of think this was done to be spiteful 5 inches off a black persons hair is a lot because our hair doesn’t grow back as fast, I feel like a boundary had been crossed even if her father gave permission they should have consulted with the mother first..
Sydney Shea Jacobs says
Fight.
Dinae N Hall says
I will snap
Zandi Banda says
Hannah Calrow best believe someone is getting cut
Chasity Hood Holland says
I wouldn’t react very well at all!! This woman FOR SURE crossed the line and the dad is NO BETTER for allowing it!!
MC Hutchins says
What did the dad say??? Does he have a say so? I personally ask dudes if the mom is OK with any hairstyle I do for their daughter because I don’t need anybody coming at me silly!! But the dads always ask, well who paying for it. Plus with all that hair the mom probably stuck it in ponytails and it was probably hard to manage.. I AM NOT JUSTIFYING JUST OFFERING A DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW. me personally I would be pissed!!
Nissi DeNas says
sounds like the c**t living with my grand babys sperm donor…..threatened to put a blow out in the babys hair, pretty, curly, virgin baby hair! #jealousyofyourboyfriendskid
Sandra Robinson says
put her in jail
Sarah Alexandra says
The majority of my energy would go into making sure my daughter was ok. Then I would sit that crazy b**ch down and calmly explain to her that I plan on ruining her life.
Ummi Zakiah says
“Girlfriend” and not wifey…And didn’t ask for my permission???
I’m lighting that @$$ up! And I hate violence. But violating my baby by cutting her hair off is a war she would be far from ready for. Smh!
#LeavePplKidsAlone
Ken Mayfield says
Protective order.
Vedejah Scroggins says
I mean there’s no point in crying about it now it’s already cut off and gone it’ll grow back lol I remember I cut ponytail off my momma cried until it grew back obviously there’s no pictures of it but anyway there’s nothing that can be really yeah it’s messed up the girlfriend did that without even asking the mother but you can’t take her to court over it you can’t make her pay for it or nothing is one of those things that you just gotta deal with until it grows back
Krys L Campbell says
Your honour…I don’t know what happened…I blacked out
Luisa Matos says
Jennifer Marie this what I was talking about ! I’ll Fck up the girlfriend
Jennifer Marie says
Lmfao I’ll shave her head too ain’t nobody touching my child’s hair without my permission
Shirlene Washington says
Put her in a head lock and let my daughter cut her hair off
Sakinna Isallthatsneeded says
B**ch would have gotten punched right in her dam face…period!!!
Vassey Contour says
She should be charged with
assault.
Whookiebaby Jordan says
Go to jail..clinck clinck
Jennifer Begel says
Listen you will grow that hair back in 00000000.1 seconds how dare you
Cherie Neumann says
My cousin will bail me out!! U gt my back????????????????
Danee Winston says
I would be FURIOUS!! Is this real??
Fay TriniBrownie Samaroo says
Yes! I WILL cut 5 inches off of her head as well… Simple….Smfh
Annette Trimble says
Id want to fight but i think id just sue a the father supervised. Visits of hes that damn stupid. He has no tespect for his daughter or women
Andrenette Johnson says
I would have cut 5 inches off her ass! First off, she had no business doing my child’s hair to begin with especially when both of my hands work perfectly fine! If my daughter hair needed to be fixed, it would have be done prior to going to her dad’s house or if it needed to be done, the same COURAGE his girlfriend MUSTERED up to chop my 5 inches of my child’s hair off, she should have been women enough to call me and to ask to do it or advise me or her dad that it is messy and that it needs to be fixed.
As for my ex husband…he had be better be equally as upset as I would be about our daughters hair and let this b**ch ride because clearly she doesn’t know her f**king lane especially when it comes to a child that doesn’t belong to her…FOR EXAMPLE MINE! I don’t have a daughter but I have nieces and even still umma cut 5 inches off a b**ch ass about them too especially if my brother or sister didn’t the b**ch to cut my niece hair.
Deborah Owolabi says
Mami i am getting angry for you all over again. I want to give him a piece of my mind!
Myriam Julien says
Men / Women don’t put your hands on a child that you had no parts of creating… that’s assault I would be in court and as the custodial parent would win and sue her after in small claim court for the max
Melessa Bascom says
this was immature of the girlfriend. I want to know if she envy the child’s hair? the had pretty and quality hair.
Michelle Alexandre says
Jealous b**ch
Renee A M Reives says
We’d fight. End of story. Hope you enjoy eating through a straw because Brooke Valentine would be making her comeback.
Jaunice Quails-Bittle says
I would’ve beat his girlfriends ass
Veronica Williams says
Dude…. Jezabelle von Jane look at this, come look at this….
Girl you are something else, you know that? (in my Kevin Hart voice)
Tracy L Adams says
I’m speechless because I would knock her ass out and cut all her hair off!! Wtf? Oh Hell no!! And the father allowed it?? I can’t. Smh!
Cb Sampson says
THATS NOT YOUR DAUGHTER PERIOD
Marie Walker says
Shave the skin off that heffa!!!!
Dionne Lee says
Ok which ass…do I beat first…because they both got it coming
Doris Lorraine Woods says
Chick did it to piss the momma off; s**t!!!! Where’s my damn club??? You don’t cut a child’s hair without asking the mother first!! If she was just “styling” her hair than why cut the child’s hair – b**ch would’ve gotten punched in the face and then I would have a “talk” with daddy
Sha Ron Jones says
I went throw this with my son FATHER how cut my son hair off to call himself being mad at me an refused to get it done right he would take him in bathroom cut it an then lie an say he wanted it done my son come home or call crying an so on
Msb Sens says
i swear i would beat all the fck outta her.
Shelby Kerr says
I would put Nair in her shampoo bottle. Who tf does she think she is!
Karen Smith says
So what I’m searching for is the picture of the new girlfriend’s face after the hair cut?
Nancy Grealy says
I agree girlfriend or boyfriend shouldn’t cut your own child hairs
Tarsha Cunningham says
I would Have DID SOMETHING ILLEGAL TO CHIC .THAT ALL I’M GOING TO SAY
Michele Babcock says
Somebody getting their butt kicked!!
Lisa Courtney says
Oh heck no!
Brandi Wilson says
Girllllllllllllllllll
Juanita Wallace says
Ill be calling our lawyer to get that visitation amended!
Sam Iam says
I saw this a while ago, & IM STILL MAD!! but as I said EVERYTIME I SEE HER SHES GETTING A BOLD HAIR CUT CLEAN SHAVED EVERYTIME UNTIL IM SATISFIED, EVEN WHEN MY CHILD HAIR GROW BACK, EVERYTIME MI SEE HAR!! BOLD CUT PLEASE,!! You jealous c**t!!
Tameka L Castleberry says
So, I’m sitting with my “Brother” right now. I showed him this post. His mouth DROPPED. He says its a form of abuse. He’s outraged.
Deija Nae says
Slap the s**t out of her and cut her hair ????
Ruth Johnson says
All I am going to say , it wouldn’t be anything nice when I find her
Staci M. G Evans says
But how she so bright??? That wasn’t her decision to make… Mother please make a big deal out of this.
Shann Swift says
I would take her to court
Noriko Sandra Iwuozo says
I Would shave her freakin Head bald… nobody cuts my kids hair except me and the hairdresser ich trust…
Crystal Guzman says
Did the mother go to jail? Because damn she touched my daughter I would have went to jail for murder.
Jerlyn Hudson says
I would punch her dead in her throat!!! Because one of my daughter’s hair is past her butt and she is only 7!
Lequel Moore says
She would get her #@$%& wooped!
Jacqueline Harris-lyons says
Her ass would be GRASS and I’ll be the LAWNMOWER.
Darnella Patterson says
I’m going to jail!
Tracey Patricia says
What was she thinking cutting somebody else’s child’s hair? If somebody ever dared to cut my daughters hair without my permission they better watch out. Her hair could take years to grow back if it ever grows that long again.
Jasmine Scales says
F**K HER WHOLE LIFE UP. AN HIS
Nandia Miller says
I would be going to jail if that woman cut my baby hair
MyLi Wilkinson says
Wow, the father should of said something.
Nadia Whitis says
I would be pissed. My 4 year old daughter has beautiful long hair like that and I wish someone would cut her hair off. When she’s old enough she should be the only one to decide if she cuts her out. Hair grows back but that’s not a boundary that you cross. She’s not the mom or dad to make those decisions.
Vanity Rivera says
I would have raised hell
December Vs December Carr says
Cut hers starting at her neck. From ear to ear
Bernie Jackson says
Scalp her, on sight
Joan Mckinnie-sanders says
That’s some bull!!!! I would beat that heifer into the ground for cutting my child hair.
Prudence Renee says
Jealous
Lauren Jones says
Oh he’ll nah!
Kim Young says
Kick the b**ch ass . And the father want see her again . It shows he a week dude. A real man would of said talk to the mom
Brenda Wagner says
Now you go cut hers
Brenda Wagner says
I agree with Jones and Hayward
Tameia Staten-chase says
First of all I would not have sent her with him with her hair all out like that it would have been in ponytails cause dads don’t no how to handle all that hair and new girlfriends tend to want to play in beautiful little girls hair so that would have solved that problem right there but hell yes I would be furious and yes if mom and dad aren’t together anymore they both should talk and co parent about what happens to the children hair
Jezebel Delilah says
I would kick both they asses
Barbara Johnson says
OMG, I would hit the ceiling, no one would be safe.
Leeh Wllmz says
That cannot happen with my children
Kendra Jones says
She should asked permission. Just hair or not. It’s not her child period. I’ll question was it a discussion w the dad 1st. Wow.
Soriah Williams Howell says
All I’m gonna say is thats the last time she needs to be around that child she has bad intentions! Also he should not have that woman in his life because children are not a pawn!! The mother has had her first warning dad too.
Sandra Charlene says
B**ch!!!!!!!
AyoSamflyhighnoahharrell Harrell says
I’d beat her ass …pull her s**t out by the roots
Amber Lafave says
I just need some dollars on my books cuz im going straight to jail
Krisinda Anderson says
HELL TO NAW NAW
Akosua Nicol Asamoah says
Oh no she didnt!!!
Rashee Harriatte says
Hmmmmm no thought just action
Sararecia Long says
BEAT DATT ASS SENSELESSSSSSS
Regina Fadipe says
First of all she had no right to cut that child hair. So i would commence to beating the hell out of her then i would shave that slut bald.
Amanda Stiger says
She would have to fight me that day…
China Jones says
Wicked evil stepb**ch….I would have shot that b**ch in her face fr fr!!! What woman would do such thing to a child, jealous whore I’m so mad
Keisha Long says
She was jealous of that baby. Cow
Pril King says
Truly
He wouldn’t get her back till all 5 inches grew back. I know that little girls are was traumatized. At that age my daughter kept saying “don’t cut my hair.” I’d laugh and say see it’s only a trim. But I’d show her and tears still fell. Soo sorry to hear this.
Almaz Alem says
That chick was just nasty the kids hair was fine sue her ass
Gigette Redd Sullivan says
I would’ve beat this b**ch.. Senseless
Gigette Redd Sullivan says
I never let other people comb my girls hair
Tonya George says
Beat the BRAKES off that trick…
Latika Sommers says
The caption would have read “Unidentified woman found in a dumpster!” No not really but something to that extent. Nobody touches my baby’s hair.
Mishu Qoz says
no no no no no Whahahaha noooo !! ik zou echt paranoïde worden omgosh 😮 !! Ofk zou heel aardig doen en haar zwaar onder invloed krijgen en kaal scheren of ik ga van 0 to a 100 REAL QUICK en I’d f**k up her retarded face 🙂 and tell her not to worry … want ja … it’s just skin… it’ll grown back.. :p
Jamila Johnson says
mollywhop that as$!!! omg she’d get these hands with the quickness
Mekia Brown Fields says
That’s assault.
Antoinette Hill says
I would sued her ass n then get her drunk n cut her hair to baldness n then f**k her up. Then f**k him up for having ur baby around a crazy b**ch.
Verna Eugene-Alcide says
Well, I guess i would be imprisoned without a jury finding me guilty. I definitely would have gone 50 shades of crazy on her sorry ass
Odessa Changeiscoming says
See I don’t play that mess if the father can’t comb hair then nobody else better not touch it,leave it as is bcus I’m going have 2 see you that same day I notice my daughter hair gone and it ain’t gone be nothing nice
Tanyel Sharp says
Yea I saw this. Mani showed it to me an I reminded her Im trying to stay saved.
Angela Bonds Sanders says
Girl I would have beat both of them…..been sitting in jail.
Khalilah Habibeh says
I would have released the kraken on that b**ch. #5pieceandabiscuit
Florence Conley says
Beat her ass
Alicia Lee says
Oh hell naw! Ashley Patrick
Ashley Patrick says
Smfh jealous ass
Alicia Lee says
Ashley Patrick That’s crazy
Atina Llah says
wait so is she still walking…able to breathe…got all her teeth…wtf
Kristen Ruscitto Donato says
My ex cut my son’s hair… said the barber told her it was “locked up”…she hated him in braids.
Chad Ward says
I would kill a b**ch
Vivian Boamah Longley says
OMG I DIDN’T SEE THIS TAG!!!! I’D WHOOP HER ASS AND HIS FOR ALLOWING IT!!! JEALOUS HATEFUL B**CH!!!!
Sandra Goddard says
That was an act of violence
Sabrina Barnes says
I would best her ass to a pulp! GTFOH
Brenda Matthews says
This happened to my great grandmother around 1913-1916. The story ended with the evil stepmother running through the corn field with shotgun rounds just missing her
Lucinda Hunter says
Why she did that
Ashana Van-heyningen says
She muss want to die ????
Tamimi Benjamin says
Ahahahha me i nice buh i would like to take my time n slowly make her suffer
Tamimi Benjamin says
???????????? make the b**** cry everyday
Rosena Neptune Coulanges says
I would go to jail, bc my holiness would desapear completly ????????????????
Rosena Neptune Coulanges says
Nap gentan konnen i already suffer by giving birth then for a brat to Côme and Cut my daughter’s Beautiful haïr y’a mad ???????? peety self
Alicia Eddie says
Fareedah Jefferson. What would u do..
Fareedah Jefferson says
FLIP!!!!!! Backwards and forward! The fun nerve of people!
Antricia King says
Once u mess with a child u need to feel the wrath
Tee Cee Kaay says
I would deal with it in court.
BAG510 says
I got upset just reading it!!! I am sorry, but, I would have to talk with this NIT WIT! She had NO right cutting her hair without asking the mother. I believe she got back at the mother through her daughter. I would have to meet her with some electric clippers and shave her BALD . Or get an attorney. The way you send your child to visit a parent, is the way they should return. Take pictures before you hand them off to dad. Make sure HE is in the picture TOO!
Loretha Edwards says
I will beat her ass all day and all night and when I rest up I’ll start back tomorrow fb
The Honest Guest says
Thats not her place to cut her hair unless the Mother gave permission. Maybe she was jealous!
Sarah Stanger says
Just suffered the same had my son returned to me with with head shaved at sides with chunks out and hair cut wonky when it never even needed cutting .Yes you guessed it the new girlfriend took it upon herself to cut it with out asking no it’s not her child no she’s not a hairdresser and no she didn’t ask if it’s ok .I feel your pain . I think the girlfriend cut your daughters hair to be spiteful . Much love you should hold her down and shave her head mate . ????????